Some people have a more challenging time meeting compatible
romantic partners than others.
Patterns in numerology and astrology charts symbolize life
circumstances. Whenever we see patterns in a person's charts
representing tough love energy, their actual love life
circumstances always match the energy. As above, so below.
Our work has convinced us that at least 75% of the key
circumstances and events in everyone's life are fated.
Finances, love life, family, recognition, adversity, and
more.
Some creative (i.e., subjective) modern astrologers might
say, "Well, if things are bad in your love life at the present,
just transform your ‘fate into destiny,' and your ‘limitations
into gifts;' make it your destiny to have a good love life
now, and ‘unleash the power of your soul' while ‘delivering
grace to the world.'"
Yes, it's nice to spread light to the world, so to speak,
but you can't cheat fate, no matter how much effort and
time you put into "creating your destiny."
If you're fated to experience a long spell of challenging
romantic energy, no amount of inspiration and New Age
myth will change that. However, you can change how you
deal with it, looking at it from a spiritual perspective,
therefore making it easier to handle.
By the way, fate and destiny are the same thing. Don't let
anyone tell you otherwise. Destined circumstances and
events/fated circumstances and events-same concept.
You have free will in how you handle your personal fate/destiny
and how you make the most of your karma, within the confines
of your fate/destiny.
If the creative, modern astrologers put aside the affectation,
cheerleading and psycho-babble, and actually carried out the
comprehensive delineation and prediction typical of seasoned
astrologers who are devoted to their work (rather than striving
mostly for the limelight and book sales) they would be singing
a different tune.
Additionally, know that the following are best avoided if you
want value for your money, rather than mere entertainment:
Astrologers who treat the natal figures exclusively as maps of
the subject's subconscious and avoid real issues, and the timing
of such, and otherwise deny the cold, hard realities of life;
astrologers who use mainly infrequent cycles such as transits
and secondary progressions and retrogrades (which are best used
for minor modifications only); astrologers who use almost
exclusively Ptolemaic aspects (conjunctions, squares, sextiles,
etc.) in delineation; and astrologers who avoid comprehensive
charting, using only a limited number of considerations (unless
they have remarkable, consistently strong psychic ability).
Tough love life circumstances do exist recurrently for many
people. Often times, thankfully, their love timing eventually
improves greatly and if the overall natal structure looks good
for love, the subject will have romantic success.
Until that time, it's an opportunity to prepare for what is to
come. It's a good time to look into potential subconscious
blocks that may hinder one's love life. A great way to do that
is through handwriting analysis. Comprehensive handwriting
analysis exposes hidden behavioral forms in the unconscious
mind, including fears and defenses, and it's more reliable
than modern, psychological astrology.
It's very possible a person has zero conscious awareness that
his or her subconscious personality would, for example, rather
avoid anything more than superficial interaction with others.
Furthermore, he or she may think they want marriage, but their
subconscious personality views it as prison. Hence, there is a
constant, hidden battle waging between the conscious and
subconscious, and the subconscious prevails.
Good news: simply by knowing about the hidden demands of your
unconscious makeup will begin to set you free.
Scott Petullo
http://www.scottpetullo.com
Stephen Petullo
http://www.holisticmakeover.com
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